Monday, December 24, 2007
MISSING!!
(see post = http://tarastalkntreasures.blogspot.com/2007/12/missing.html
Please look, please help me come home!!My name is Rage! I am friendly! I get along with kids & pets!! I went missing from home please help me come back!RAGE has NO ID on him right now because he slipped his collar!! He is an older dog (7)!! Special dietary concerns, as he looses weight RAPIDLY in winter if not fed several meals a day!! Also, only eats a certain type of food that keeps weight on him, esp. during winter!!!He is a short, stocky brindle Staffordshire terrier!! PLEASE call my home if you see me 6261000 My mommy will come get me!!
Visit Rage's page at:
www.cjcrittercareneducation.org/rage.htm
Monday, November 12, 2007
Walking
Sunday, November 11, 2007
Kymberlee's new Glasses
On friday, Nov 9th, Kymberlee got her new glasses! She looks so cute!! She looks more mature (when she isn't goofing & trying to hide from me!)
Kymberlee again. . with Rayna sticking her head in!!
It was also my hubby's bday! Happy birthday old timer:}
ttyl!
Friday, November 2, 2007
Real Confessions of a TIRED Mom
Wed of course was halloween & we took the kids out. We took them around their school & then to Rhinebeck. They ToT about 3 & 1/2 hrs. We went through the haunted firehouse in Rhinebeck.
Thurs I did some errands with my mother. She is going for a surgery consult in Dec. So I will prob be caring for her for awhile when she has the surgery.
Fri am (this am!) I spent an hour & 1.2 in "K"! lol We went to Rayna's class this am to share Chuckie with them. Then, we visited the other 2 "K" classes too! So, I got 4 "educational programs" in this week. Rayna's teacher would like me to come back again next Fri with my snake! LOL!!
Then, I took Jaymz home (he went with me after working all night & getting a tidbit of sleep - to the school to take pics for me) and I had to go to Kingston to do my errands & shopping. (Also went over to mom's quick & we took a walk - we have been trying to do this several times a week) . .. (So I am up to @ 7mi!)
I forgot Jesse's dance was tonite - so talking to Jaymz around 4:30, he was like did you forget @ Jesse's dance? And I was like ah shit! I did! Ugh!! SO I had to rush more. . .
I got home just after 5. We left for the high school about 10 to 6.
The dances were all good again this year! They are performed by the 3rd gr classes of the district. Last time we went was when the girls did their 3rd dances in 2005?? Rayna said she is NOT doing that. . . although, she was dancing along in the bleachers!! LOL
Hmm. . . Here we have a parenting program . .. Maybe through the high school? I hear it is 8th graders, but that is middle school. Anyways, the girls get a "life like doll" . . .interesting. . . the baby care packages are these. . . I only know because the things the girls' have matches these things . . . .I though maybe 8th grade is a bit young. . .but then looking at the of 8th graders that have had babies in the last 10 yrs . . (+++) maybe it's not!! My kids would love playing with these babies! LOL Of course, the older girls aren't "playing" but having a "learning" experience. .but still . .
Ok I am getting delirious from lack of sleep so I must go. . more soon!! - I actually have a pretty interesting blog post in the works. .. well *I* think it is extrememly interesting. .. It's probably going to take a few days for me to get it finished. . . Also have several photos I want to get shared. . .
Thursday, November 1, 2007
So I been thinking . . . A beginning to a story maybe. . . Or maybe this is how it SHOULD be. . .
ok . . . So I been doing a lot of thinking . . . Ok so it's not THAT uncommon, but I don't blog about what I think about personally too much . . ok well sometimes, I do, but usually it's un relation to some once else - like the kids. . . or something specific that irkes me. .
Ok, I am rambling, I'm sorry. So here goes. . .
Driving today past some fields (where corn grew earlier this year), I was thinking about how life sux a lot, things are getting so insanely ridiculously priced. . . soon people will not be able to buy things they NEED let alone WANT to have. . .
So, I was making up this little story.
Ms Bettie lived in a "small country town" named Best. Ms Bettie had a big farm that her & her husband worked with their family over the years of their marriage. Her husband passed away a few years ago & Ms Bettie's family tried to get her to sell the home & property. They told her it was too much for her now that dad was gone.
Ms Bettie thought about what her children (all grown children) had discussed with her. After a few days, Ms Bettie had her children come see her again, to talk to them about her decision. She told her children that she was not going to sell their family home.
"What did you say mama?" One of her sons asked.
"Matthew, your father & I, and many of our friends, worked hard on building this home. Your father & I, and again, many of our friends helped make this farm what it is today. Much hard work went to this farm, but also love. In return, much love has come from this farm. Things are getting to hard for families & I am going to make a change in our community." Ms Bettie told her children.
"Mama, you are an elderly woman. You will not be able to make a difference on your own." he daughter, Jane told her.
"On my own, maybe not. But on my own, I can make a valuable contribution to my community, which can help bring about a change people depsperately need these days." Ms Bettie told them.
The children were confused and doubtful of what their mother would be able to do at her age. They were also concerned for her safety. They feared she may fall & hurt herself, or something else!
Well, for a couple years now, Ms. Bettie had been growing corn. What she didn't realize is that she was already helping some. But, this help would turn into a much larger thing as she would soon start to realize.
Ms Bettie's close friend and neighbor, Martha & her family got corn from Ms Bettie every year. Ms Bettie did not charge them a thing. Ms Bettie had been doing this a long time & she did a great job. She also grew a few other vegetables & fruits in her large garden behind her home. Even after canning and freezing for winter, she always had some to share. The only thing that had gotten harder for her was the work of doing more herself since her husband had passed away. Her children came & helped when they could. No one thought about it much, but there were several neighbors that also came by & helped Ms Bettie whenever they could. Although many people could only spare a bit of time each day, it was that help she needed & got them through the times that was a lot of hard labor - such as harvesting time.
Martha & her husband were younger than Ms Bettie. Martha & John raised cattle. It was a "large scale" operation, but enough for them, their childrens' families, many friends, and even several to sell for other things they may need. They always made sure Ms Bettie got what she needed for the year at slaughter time. They were able to do such generous things because Ms Bettie had provided them with feed corn.
Another neighbor was Sue-Sue, as many of the children called her. She was a mid-life woman who lived with her sister. Sue-Sue had never gotten married, but loved the neighborhood children. She was like an aunt to the whole neighborhood of children. She even had a yard full of toys for when they came over to play. She had babysat most of them, and being a fabulous midwife, had even delivered a good deal of them! Sue & her sister were fabulous seamstresses. Sewing, quilting, needlework, and other hand crafts had been passed down through their family from back in the day, generations ago. Sue & her sister often provided sewing services for anyone in the community that needed them. They often did this for free, or for very low, modest fees. They never charged anyone they knew was too poor to pay, even if they tried. They always watched for bargains, or materials they could use in their sewing, such as wool someone was keeping for a sheep, or various other sewing supplies. They made fabulous quilts. They often made about 8 a year, between them, and sometimes more, or less, depending how the year went, and how supplies were. They always made one for new babies that were born, or if the one they had made an older child was wearing out. They often implemented the worn out quilt pieces into the new somehow. They would also use bits of the child's outgrown clothing, and things like that. Whatever they used, everyone always loved their quilts and they always kept everyone warm. The extra quilts the sisters made during the year went for sale at the quilt show, and often made them enough (or more than enough) to get supplies they needed for home, or sewing. Somehow, they always managed with what they had. . . and manaed to get by well enough they weren't in need. Sue & her sister also got meat from Martha & her husband. The sisters returned the favor by helping deliver calves, feeding, and of course, sewing. They had also helped with the children, various babysitting adventures, or delivering a child. They had delivered 4 of Martha's children. The sisters also got corn from Ms Bettie. They made or used it for various things, like other people int he community. They dropped in and visited with Ms Bettie - often sewing at her home while visiting her to keep her company while she was canning or cooking something. They also helped with this things, too, so they could have canned or cooked items to share with the community. They helped her at harvest time if needed, or planting, or whatever she did need. Sometimes, it was just a visit & tea.
Bob & Jeannie was another couple in Best. Bob & Jennie raised chickens, ducks, geese & turkeys. They loved their birds, but most of the raised birds were for eating. They did have some that were pets, and they roamed all over, making visits here & there to people in the neighborhood. The kids loved it. Bob & Jeannie raised more than enough birds for their whole community. They often had plenty to sell to neighboring towns and they always got praises for their labor of love with their birds. Often times, they would get calls mid-year, to put in orders for slaughter time. They often had a good idea of who would be wanting what in the following year. Bob & Jeannie also got corn from Ms Bettie. They got meat from Marhta & her husband. And of course, Sue & her sister helped with children and sewing ventures. Bob & Jeannie had 7 boys. Many of these boys helpd all over the community. All of them had been working their own property "since birth", as they say. As they got older & learned more things, the boys helped their parents when they went to other peoples' homes to give a hand - like to Ms Bettie's to help with the corn. After awhile, the boys, one by one, got old enough that they didn't need to be supervised by their parents when they went to help. So, it helped even more because the boys could go around & do jobs that needed down for neighbors, without having the need of a watchful eye of their parents. Their parents then were able to get even more done at home.
And while this is so rare in almost all other communities in the world, this was the "norm" for the children in their town. Boys did a lot of hard labor - field work, garbage details, slaughter time, etc. The girls had other chores. They helped the sisters whenever needed with sewing chores that they may need, or trips to town to get the needed items for families. The girls also helped with laundry - for their home or others, if needed, watching & caring for smaller children, cooking and canning activities, and cleaning homes. So, it was not a worry if you did not have a son - or a daughter, because soon, someone's child would be around to see if you needed help that day.
Joanna & Mel had an unusual area. They had moved to Best about 40 years ago because they were tired of the big city life. They had bought a large plot of land, and they worked to build their home. Over the next 20 or so years, Mel & Joanna had decided they wanted to no longer pay their money to the electric companies to supple the energy for their homes. They worked a way they could use the solar panels purchased at the store, to harvest the solar energy. They set up this service for the town. What happened was that they figured out rough ideas of everyone's needs, and allowed for a certain growth rate - if some new families came in. The town worked together to be sure they could get the solar panels & supplies needed & all worked together to set this up. They then made sure everyone was switched over to the solar system of energy, and off the electrical energy that cost them so much. This saved some families saved $1500 or more a year by doing this. For others, it was even more, due to the various activities at the home. It took many years, and even a few trials to get this done for the community. But, working together, they got it all worked out and going, in about 6 years. Mel & Joanna did not have children, because things were so hard in the world. They didn't know what the world would be like when their children were adults, or if the children would even be able to work & earn enought o care for themselves. After the solar system of energy was set up, and running well, there was minimal maintenace that needed to be done, that they took care of, so they also went around and helped in the community where they were needed. They also cared for children, and were like "grandparents" in their community.
What Ms Bettie & her children did not realize, was that she had already made a tremendous difference in her community. She did not think of it because it was the way her life was. . .It was what she knew & the "norm" for them. . . She didn't think of this, except for times she had to go to another town. Then she was so happy & greatful for her home & community. She knew she had such a rare & wonderful thing.
Wednesday, October 31, 2007
Monday, October 29, 2007
Talking
Thursday, October 4, 2007
Kymberlee Mychele
Tuesday, October 2, 2007
Rayna -- the beginning
Rayna Skye 12-24-05
Rayna - you are a HUGE animal lover. You are amazing with animals. . . they take to you like no one I've ever seen before!
Somethin' Else I have Decided . . .
My kids are so crazy & definitely keep me busy & hopin'. . . there are always things to do here. . . as I am sure any of you with kids know;)
So, I am going to start that now, in a new post. . .
Dariyn. . .
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Grandchildren are Great! (Cute from an email)
After putting her grandchildren to bed, a grandmother changed into old slacks and a droopy blouse and proceeded to wash her hair.
As she heard the children getting more and more rambunctious, her patience grew thin.
At last she threw a towel around her head and stormed into their room, putting them back to bed with stern warnings.
As sheleft the room, she heard the three-year-old say with a trembling voice, "Who was THAT?"
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When my grandson Billy and I entered our vacation cabin, we kept the lights off until we were inside to keep from attracting pesky insects.
Still, a few fireflies followed us in.
Noticing thembefore I did, Billy whispered, "It's no use, Grandpa. The mosquitoesare coming after us with flashlights."
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When my grandson asked me how old I was, I teasingly replied, "I'm not sure."
"Look in your underwear, Grandma,"he advised."Mine says I'm four to six"
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A second grader came home from school and said to her grandmother,"Grandma, guess what? We learned how to make babies today."
The grandmother, more than a little surprised, tried to keep her cool.
"That's interesting," she said, "How do you make babies?"
"It's simple," replied the girl. "You just change 'y' to 'i' and add 'es'"
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Children's Logic:
"Give me a sentence about a public servant," said a teacher.
The small boy wrote: "The fireman came down the ladder pregnant."
The teacher took the lad aside to correct him. "Don'tyou know what pregnant means?" she asked.
"Sure," said the young boy confidently. "It means carrying a child."
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A nursery school teacher was delivering a station wagon full of kids home one day when a fire truck zoomed past.
Sitting inthe front seat of thefire truck was a Dalmatian dog.
The children started discussing the dog's duties.
"They use him to keep crowds back," said one youngster.
"No, said another, "he's just for good luck."
A third child brought the argument to a close .."They use the dogs", she said firmly, "to find thefire hydrant."
Thursday, September 6, 2007
Back - to - work & school! Thursday, Sept 6th, 2007
On Sept 1st, we went to Lake taconic & had a day with some family we haven't seen in awhile.
My mom, brother & his girlfriend went, as well as myself, my husband & our kids (4), and 2 of my aunts & their kids (1 has 1 (in his 30's) - and a friend's son came with her, the other has 3 - in their 20's). Haven't seen them in ages & it was great to!! We had a great day & I am glad we went.
We walked on some of the Rail Trail - it goes from Kingston to like New Paltz. . . on Sep. 2nd. Found cool mushrooms to take pics of! Those will be in my nature blog, all with the info when i get them id'ed;0)
Then, the other day (9-3) . . . we went to Minnewaska State park (hubby, me & the kids) and we walked around the lake. I have been really into pics (yea i know - but even more;) lately. . . i have been taking pics of EVERYTHING - literally;0) lol
Most of those will appear in one of my other blogs tho. . . :) So if ya wanna see. . . you will have to go there;0) I haven't gotten through any of those pics yet. . . ;P" i am working on taking them off the cam now. . .
Have some of the kids to share. . . from the past week or so;0) that'll be good. . . (Please visit my other blog - Tara's Talk & Treasures for a bit more detail on us from the last week or so - dh & I).
The kids started back to school on Wed, Sep 5th.
Dariyn was thrilled lol . . the other's didn't quite share her enthusiasm;0)
No real homework for anyone yet. Kymberlee has a book to cover by Mon.
Kymberlee & Dariyn (5th graders) want to try out for chorus (I have to sign a permission slip). Dariyn says she already tried out & will be in chorus if I sign her paper. Her class tried out today. I told Kymberlee she has to sing if I sign it LOL . . . but they sang in their concerts since starting school (the ones we could make it too).
Rayna wants to be in a pageant next summer. . . well she is the one that didn't talk to anyone in DC . . how the heck is she supposed to be in a pageant??? I told her she is going to have to start talking to people if she wants to really do it. . . Funny thing is, she is QUITE the ham once she gets to know & relax around people. . .
Jesse's 2nd grade teacher (from last yr) "moved up" & is a 3rd grade teacher this yr. At the end of last yr, we all decided whether we wanted our kids to have her again, or preferred another teacher for 3rd grade. I decided to keep him with the same teacher.
Then, of course, there is Rayna. She is the youngest . . . but quite wise beyond her years. She is so compassionate, loving, adorable. . . but boy, is she stubborn!! LOL What a kid:)
Oh, then I just have to vent a little bit. . . Judge Joe Brown this evening had a "pit bull" case. . . the lady took her kids from a daycare because they had a pitbull (um, to start with, didn't she know about the dog previously?? I didn't watch the episode). Anyways, dogs need to really stop being portrayed in such a neative way - Dogs are not BAD dogs . . . OWNERS are bad people
:( My staffie is 7 yrs old this month - on the 11th. We have had him since he was 4 & 1/2 wks old. We had a baby after getting him - even as "bonded" to me as he is, he has never attacked a child, or an animal. He loves people & attention. . . He was raised with other dogs, cats, chickens, ducks, geese, children. . . We have also had an Akita, a Chow, a wolfX (2 different ones - 1 being @ 75%) - all these dogs we had with children except for the 75% . . all these dogs are also condemed dogs. I agree - they are DEFINITELY not dogs for anyone. But, we should really stop blaming animals . . .and start blaming the responsible people.
It's a rough life here . . . a trailor that's too small, never enough of everything . . .
Pics coming soon . . . Stay tuned:)
Thursday, August 16, 2007
Thursday, August 16th, 2007
Today, I didn't take any photos of the kids, so I am going to share an old photo from July. This pic is from July 12th, 2007. We went the the Mohonk Nature Preserve. Rayna LOVES animals. . . She is going to change the world;)
Have a great day all!
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
Wednesday, August 15th, 2007
I have blogs for this & that. I think the other I will focus on the rehab aspects, or animals in general.
The other is for my photo of the day. I will post 1 pic a day there. Then, I am also going to have a "houses of NY". . . They won't necessarily be "exotic" or big, or beautiful, or anything. Just houses that I happen to take a photo of.
So, I will move my post about Rayna's first day of "Jump Start" to this blog & then continue on with the kids from there!
>>>> August 13th, 2007 --> My other photos of today, include several of my daughter. She went back to school today. Well, not "technically" today - but my youngest (of 4) is starting Kindergarten this fall, and they do a "JumpStart" program for them. She will go to "Morning Kindergarten" Mon-Thurs for 2 wks. (8 days). This is supposed to help them get an idea of what it is going to be like, however, this is the same little girl who has attended daycare for the last 2 & 1/2 yrs & not spoken a word to anyone inside the daycare in that time. From the time she started, until her last day, she didn't SPEAK a word. Anyhow, here is my "little" girl . . . . on her first day of Jump Start. I ended up staying today {Sigh}
I actually started a new seperate account at Photobucket for more photos. I can't post them all here. . .
Yesterday in "school", Rayna played the "Name Game" (they had to arrange the magnetic letters of their name on the magnetic board) & got a crown.
Today (8-15), with the program, Rayna went on a field trip to a museum in New Paltz (I think at the college). She said she had fun & she liked that they got to paint:) She likes to paint. However, she didn't talk to anyone yet still.
Rayna will go to the JS program tomorrow, then not on Fri, then Mon-Thurs of next week.
Kymberlee is at Gma & Gpas again (she stayed last nite when we went). We went up yesterday afternoon & had dinner. We also went swimming. April came up with Iz & I took Izzie in the pool with the other kids. April & mom sewed. Then we dropped Jaymz at work & came home.
I will post about my niece Izabella, here too. She is my little pumpkin - princess Belle!:) I don't get to see her much though, so when I know they are going to my parents, I try to go too, so I can see her;)
So here is 2 pics of my lil' princess Belle:
(1 Where did Iz go??) (2 watching my 4 kids in the pool). These pics are from Sunday 8/12/07,
And here is Iz trying to sit on a diaper on the bucket! This pic is from yesterday, 8-14-07